Carli Blau, the founder of Boutique Psychotherapy is a sought after

individual and couples therapist who helps people find self-love and

confidence within themselves to create the life, love, sex, and relationships

they want and so very much deserve.


With 10+ years in the field of human sexuality, Carli began as a sex and dating

blogger in 2009 and decided to turn her passion into a career helping others.

Carli is now a sex and relationship therapist who specializes in Women's

Health, Sexual Esteem and Infertility.


Carli provides support for regular life stressors. With her challenging yet

warm-hearted approach, clients who work with Carli are held accountable

for their choices in life and empowered to use their heart, mind, and soul

to create the life they want for themselves. 

Carli has been featured in many publications and organizations about sex,

relationships such as HealthLine, EverydayHealth, PsychCentral, Bustle, and

the Endometriosis Foundation of America, Lenox Hill Hospital Patient Day,

and Mount Sinai Hospital Oncology Support Group.


Carli also works as a business consultant to companies in the mental health

and women's health sphere, specifically regarding sex and infertility. She is a

the clinical supervisor to all therapists at Boutique Psychotherapy, and is 

finishing a Ph.D. in Clinical Sex Therapy with a focus on Infertility and Sexual

Esteem in Women Experiencing Infertility Treatment. 

Carli specializes in relationships and sexual health-related topics such as managing sexual desire and functioning with infertility, endometriosis, pelvic floor dysfunction, vaginismus, vulvodynia, and re-kindling sexual desire post-diagnosis. Carli has become the go-to sex therapist for helping women rediscover their sexual functioning and desire after experiencing a loss of their desire and arousal from pain or trauma. 

Carli has a Master's Degree in Social Work from Columbia University, and a Master's Degree in Sex Education from Widener University. She is a Ph.D. Candidate in Clinical Sex Therapy and she received her certification in Perinatal Mental Health from the Seleni Institute in NY. Carli is also now qualified to practice Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing, also known as EMDR, a form of psychotherapy utilizing rapid eye movements to desensitize the brain from traumatic emotional responses connected to experiences stored in long-term memory. 

She's a featured provider for We Are Robyn, an online women's platform created to support parents and women in pregnancy and motherhood. Carli is an IVF warrior, mom of two kids, three dogs and loves dancing in the moonlight because life is just too short to do anything else. 

Want to work with Carli or another therapist on her team?

We'd love to hear from you and support you in your journey to finding the best you. 


"You're going to sleep with one person for the rest of your life and they better be the best sex you've ever had, and the person you love the most...and that person is YOU."